It won’t happen overnight, but reclaiming your financial freedom is entirely possible. We’ve outlined 5 steps on Digging yourself out of debt and undoing years of lifestyle inflation takes patience, honesty, and a shift in priorities, how to start the climb back, from facing the truth about your finances to making small, intentional changes that create significant breathing room.
This is about more than just numbers; it’s about shifting your mindset and choosing a sustainable path over a debt-fueled façade. Get ready to take control of your money and build a solid foundation for your future.
Here’s how to start the climb back.
- First, stop pretending it’s fine.
Many people keep spending to maintain an image, even when overwhelmed by debt.
Start by acknowledging the real state of your finances. There’s no shame in pausing, regrouping, and choosing a quieter, more sustainable path.
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- List all your debts. All of them.
Credit cards, mobile loans, sacco loans, overdrafts, personal loans, digital loans… everything.
This is your starting point. Knowing what you owe helps you make a clear plan.
Next, ask yourself:
‘How much of my spending is a habit, not a need?’ Lifestyle inflation creeps in when your income rises and your expenses rise faster.
You deserve comfort. But you don’t have to prove your success with purchases.
- Start cutting back gently but firmly.
This doesn’t mean becoming miserly. It means being intentional.
Say no to the third streaming service. Choose home-cooked meals more often. Pause that trip. Small changes create breathing room.
- Automate a minimum debt repayment plan.
Even if you’re only paying a little extra each month, consistency chips away at the problem.
Snowball (smallest to largest) or avalanche (highest interest first), choose a method and stick to it.

If your income has plateaued, consider:
– A side gig (within reason)
– Selling items you no longer need
– Asking for better terms from lenders
The goal here is to help you increase cash flow.
And if you’ve been living above your means, ask:
What version of myself was I trying to impress?
Who was I trying to be?
Rebuilding your finances is an act of self-respect. You’re not going backwards, you’re choosing freedom over facade.
Once you’re making progress:
– Track your net worth quarterly
– Set mini financial wins (e.g., “Ksh 10K paid off!”)
– Use every raise to boost your repayment or savings
Celebrate quiet wins. They add up.
You may not be able to undo all your past choices. But you can make different ones from today.
Digging yourself out of bad financial decisions should not make you feel guilty, but help you regain control.
You’re allowed to rebuild.
Frequenly Ask Questions
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How do I start getting out of debt in Kenya?
- Start by listing all your debts, from mobile loans to personal loans, and honestly assess your spending habits to identify areas for reduction.
What is lifestyle inflation and how can I avoid it?
- Lifestyle inflation is when your expenses increase along with your income. You can avoid it by being intentional with your spending and prioritizing needs over wants.
What are the best methods to pay off multiple loans?
- You can choose between the snowball method, where you pay off the smallest loan first, or the avalanche method, where you tackle the loan with the highest interest rate first.
How can I increase my cash flow to pay off debt?
- Consider taking on a side gig, selling items you no longer need, or asking your lenders for better repayment terms to free up more money for debt repayment.
Why is it important to face your debt instead of ignoring it?
- Facing your debt is an act of self-respect that allows you to regain control of your finances, make better decisions, and choose financial freedom over a façade.
Key Take Aways
- Honesty is the First Step: The journey begins with a candid acknowledgment of your financial reality. Stop pretending everything is fine and face your debts head-on.
- Know Your Debts: List out every single loan—from mobile loans to sacco loans—to create a clear starting point for your repayment plan.
- Curb Lifestyle Inflation: Distinguish between needs and habits. Start making intentional, firm cuts to your spending to create cash flow without becoming miserly.
- Automate & Accelerate Repayment: Implement a consistent debt repayment plan. Whether you choose the snowball or avalanche method, consistency is key to chipping away at your debt.
- Boost Your Income: Explore practical ways to increase your cash flow, such as a side gig, selling unused items, or renegotiating loan terms with your lenders.
- Mindset Shift: Rebuilding your finances is an act of self-respect, not a punishment. It’s about choosing freedom over living up to a false image you created.
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CEO & Co-Founder, Abojani Investment
Robert Ochieng is a visionary entrepreneur and the co-founder of Abojani Investment, a leading financial education platform in Kenya that has empowered over 20,000 Africans to embark on their investment journeys. As CEO, he has demonstrated an unwavering commitment to financial literacy, successfully demystifying money and investments and making them accessible and relevant to individuals from all walks of life.
Running Thriving Investment Communities
Robert’s influence extends well beyond Abojani Investment’s core offerings. He has actively fostered a sense of community by running investment forums and groups with a vast following of over 300,000 Africans. These communities provide a safe space for individuals to exchange ideas, share experiences, and support each other on their investment journeys.
Vision for the Future
As co-founder of Abojani Investment, Robert envisions a financially empowered Africa. He strives to expand the reach of his financial education initiatives, enabling millions more to gain the knowledge and confidence needed to achieve their financial goals. His vision is to create a society where every individual has the tools and understanding to build lasting wealth and prosperity.
Professional Background
Robert Ochieng is a highly accomplished CEO at the helm of Abojani Investment, an investment and advisory firm in Kenya. He is a seasoned professional with over 14 years of experience in IT, Finance, and leadership.
His career includes key roles at prominent institutions such as Equity Bank, Gulf African Bank, Guaranty Trust Bank (GTBank) and Airtel.
Robert’s expertise has also been sought after by the National Treasury for consultancy on planning and budgeting systems, showcasing his exceptional knowledge and skills in the field. Passionate about driving meaningful conversations and collaborations between academia, industry, and the public sector, Robert actively engages in research projects focusing on digital transformation within the financial services sector. With his visionary leadership and strategic insights, Robert Ochieng continues to make a significant impact in the business world.



